Now What?: How to Move Forward When We're Divided (About Basically Everything) | Sarah Stewart Holland - Beth Silvers

From friendships to Facebook to far-off countries, what do we do when our lives seem mired in conflict? How do we find connection when our differences are constantly on display and even exacerbated by algorithms and echo chambers? How do we build a kinder society?

If you are tired of the anxiety, frustration, and fear that pervade your connections with other people, both online and in real life, Sarah Stewart Holland and Beth Silvers want you to know one thing--you are not alone. In this book they will help you understand the powerful connections you have with other people on a personal, community-based, national, and even international level. Then they show you how to

- engage your family with a spirit of curiosity
- listen closely to the anxieties and fears of your friends
- explore shared values within your community
- understand your work as a citizen in a diverse country
- hold lightly those things that are beyond your control around the world

The status quo isn't working. If you long to be a peacemaker and a positive influence in your spheres, Now What? is your door to a future that is characterized by hope, love, and connection despite our differences.

Editorial Reviews 

From the Back Cover

"A big-hearted, clear-eyed look at the polarized world we find ourselves in--with real guidance on how to move forward."--Anne Helen Petersen, author of Can't Even


What do we do when our lives seem mired in conflict? How do we find connection when our differences are constantly on display and even exacerbated by algorithms and echo chambers? How do we move forward together when we're so far apart?

If you are tired of the anxiety, frustration, and fear that pervade your online and in-person relationships, Sarah Stewart Holland and Beth Silvers want you to know one thing--you are not alone. In this book they will show you how to

· engage your family with a spirit of curiosity
· listen closely to the anxieties and fears of your friends
· explore shared values within your community
· understand your work as a citizen in a diverse country
· be an informed global citizen without burning out

Now What? is the door to a future that is characterized by hope, love, and connection despite our differences.


"We need this book now more than ever."--Gretchen Carlson, acclaimed journalist, female empowerment advocate, and cofounder of Lift Our Voices

"Sarah and Beth have somehow figured out a way to approach every discussion with grace, composure, and wisdom."--Clint Harp, TV/podcast host and author of Handcrafted: A Woodworker's Story

"Our shared conflicts can actually create deeper connections with people? I'll have what they are having."--Jen Hatmaker, speaker, podcast host, and New York Times bestselling author of Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire

About the Author

Sarah Stewart Holland iscohost with Beth Silvers of the popular podcast Pantsuit Politics and coauthored I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening): A Guide to Grace-Filled Political Conversation. She attended Transylvania University in Lexington, Kentucky, and later received her Juris Doctor from American University. Sarah began her career as a congressional staffer, campaign aide, and blogger and social media consultant. She lives in Paducah, Kentucky, where she served a term as a city commissioner and sits on the board of numerous civic organizations. She speaks frequently to universities, businesses, and civic organizations about improving political dialogue. Sarah shares life with her spouse, Nicholas, and children Griffin, Amos, and Felix.

Learn more at www.pantsuitpoliticsshow.com.

Beth Silvers is cohost with Sarah Stewart Holland of the popular podcast Pantsuit Politics and coauthored I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening): A Guide to Grace-Filled Political Conversation. She attended Transylvania University in Lexington, Kentucky, and later received her Juris Doctor from the University of Kentucky. Beth has practiced law and served as a human resources executive and business coach. She lives in Union, Kentucky, and serves on several local boards of directors. She speaks frequently to universities, businesses, and civic organizations about improving political dialogue. Beth shares life with her spouse, Chad, and children Jane and Ellen.